3 Secrets Millionaires Use Every Time They Speak
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What would happen if you created a sandwich and forgot to add the bottom piece of bread? It would fall apart right? Yes!
That is what many business presenters do to their speech. They create a powerful opening, give valuable information and they forget to add the close! Their speech fizzles out, they don't any business and their left scratching their heads wondering what happened.
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Have you ever decided whether or not to attend an event where a speaker was speaking based solely on the title of their talk? Of course, we all do. That’s why the title of your talk is so crucial to your success. One tiny sentence carries the weight of all your marketing efforts. So take your time and make it a compelling, attention grabbing, and sizzling!
How do you do that? Think about what your audience wants. Ask yourself, what is the benefit of your talk? What are they going to get after listening to you? Your title must promise something they want or something they want to avoid.
Also, keep in mind that people love numbers, secrets, and “how to” titles. Numbers have an added advantage in that they indicate a system. They tell the reader that you’ve given some thought to the process and have developed a proven formula that you are about to share with them.
On the other hand, the words “secrets” in your title will draw on our curious nature. As human’s we just can’t stand to be left out. We want to know the insider secrets that others know. Therefore, using the word in our title will intrigue your audience to come and find out what they don’t already know.
How-to titles tell us that we are going to learn something new and most people love to learn. These titles indicate the speaker is going to train us instead of simple talk.
Here are some examples of speech titles:
The Most Common Tax Mistake You’re Probably Making Now
Which ever style you choose, the title is an important part. It’s like a mini-commercial. Make it fun, exciting, or controversial, and make sure to communicate the benefits.
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Many business owners, service professionals, network marketers, coaches and consultants have learned to use public speaking to win clients and grow their businesses. These professionals are no different than you. The only difference is that they are using speaking as a marketing strategy....effortlessly. And you can too.
Start attracting clients, generating leads and growing your business today!
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Passionately Speaking,
Arvee Robinson
The Persuasive Speaking Coach
www.instantprospeaker.com
Is fear holding you back from getting out there a speaking your business? You are not alone. Many professionals, business owners and entrepreneurs stop dead in their tracks when it comes to public speaking. Don't let this happen to you. I will share with you three powerful ways to come overcome the jitters. Listen...
Passionately Speaking,
Arvee Robinson
The Persuasive Speaking Coach, Author and Speaker
http://www.instantprospeaker.com/
http://www.speakyourwaytowealth.com/
Body Language Tells the Truth
Ever listen to someone speaking and realize that something about that person just did not ring true? Something about the way he carried himself conflicted with his words. Maybe, it was his inability to look you in the eye. Perhaps, his hands distracted you. Or maybe it was the facial expressions that just did not quite match what he was saying? No, now you realize it was his stance; focused, truthful people just don’t carry themselves that way. As you will see, the body tells its own story. Often you can read someone and reassure yourself whether that person is trustworthy or someone you are right to run away from right now. Let’s look more closely at body language.
1. The eyes don’t lie.
a. Have you ever conversed with someone who would not look at you directly? The person looked over your shoulder, above your head, at the floor, or even at someone else—everywhere but at you. What did you think? The person probably made you uneasy. Most likely, you doubted that person’s interest, honesty, and confidence. Or perhaps you felt ignored. Eye contact plays a major role in how people perceive one another, and, as a speaker, you should pay special attention to it. If you make eye contact with your listeners, they’ll think you are sincere, credible, friendly, and honest. These feelings have a great impact on how listeners receive your message.
b. Eye contact has other benefits:
- It allows you to establish a bond with listeners.
- It holds their attention.
- It demonstrates you are speaking honestly.
- It conveys self-confidence.
- It shows you are listening.
- It acknowledges people.
c. When speaking in front of a group of people:
- Look at your audience before you launch your speech.
- Scan from one side to the other before you speak.
- Contact and connect with one person at a time.
- Hold your eye contact for 3 to 4 seconds for each person.
- Use the 4 C’s—contact, connect, communicate, and continue.
d. Eye contact to avoid includes:
- Staring too long at one person
- Looking above people’s heads
- Looking up at the ceiling, or out the window
2. Hand gestures show conviction and enthusiasm.
Hand gestures are the most expressive part of body language. To be most effective, make your hand gestures above your elbow and away from your body. They should be vigorous and definite to show conviction and enthusiasm. A sweeping wave of your arm to show distance will add more to your message than a half-hearted hand wave. Hand gestures also should be full and varied rather than partial and repetitious; making the same movement over and over is distracting. Make your hand gestures larger for large audiences to ensure that even people in the back of the room can see them.
a. Some basic hand gestures show:
- Size, weight, shape, direction, and location
- Importance or urgency
- Comparison and contrast
b. Hand gestures to avoid include:
- The parent—pointing figure
- The fist—anger and stress
- The karate chop—looks violent
c. Sample hand placements include:
- Hands cupped, one holding the other at the waist
- Hand at side ready to make a gesture
d. Hand placements to avoid include:
- Touching the face
- Hands in the pocket
- Fig leaf position
- Prayer position
- Arms crossed at the chest
- Same placement for too long
3. Make sure your facial expression supports your words.
Your face unwittingly conveys cues about how your listeners are supposed to react or feel. If you are talking about a terrible automobile accident, yet you are smiling and nodding, your audience will be confused, not sad. Your facial expression must be consistent with the feelings or information you are communicating.
4. Assume the rooted position to convey confidence.
a. The stance you assume while standing still is important because it indicates your confidence and comfort level. If you slouch your shoulders and fix your eyes on the floor, your audience will think you are shy and weak. If you repeatedly shift your weight from one foot to another, you appear uncomfortable and nervous, and your movement may distract your audience. But when you stand straight, with your feet shoulder-length apart and your weight evenly distributed on each foot, and look directly at your listeners, you convey confidence and poise.
b. This is called the rooted position. Imagine your feet have roots buried deeply in the ground. It will be impossible for you to sway or get off balance. This is the position of power and strength.
Want to learn more about body language and how to use it to persuade your audience?
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Passionately Speaking
Arvee Robinson
Persuasive Speaking Coach
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A thin coat of mucus protects the nasal passages and the health of your voice. However, too much may cause you to clear your throat excessively, which irritates the vocal chords and leaves your voice sounding strained.
First, the square wooden object placed at the center of the room is properly called a lectern, not a podium. The word podium comes from the word podiatry which means: the care of the human foot, the diagnosis and treatment of foot disorders. Therefore, a podium is a stage you stand on not what you stand behind. Webster’s dictionary definition of a podium is: a small platform for the conductor of an orchestra, or for a public speaker. Now you are among only 9% of the speakers out there that will use the right terminology.




I have recently taken an interest in running. Yes, that's right, running. In January 2006 I set a goal: lose weight and get back in shape. To do that, I hired a personal trainer, Martin. At our first session, I laughed at him when he told me to run from here to that tree (only about five yards). "You've got to be kidding!" I said. Now, I compete in 5K and 10K races and run over five miles every day.
You spend all year planning for the BIG event and BAM the day is here! You ask yourself “have I forgotten anything?” And you hope and pray people show up. This was me a couple of days ago as I stood on the stage at the Radisson Hotel in Newport Beach looking out into an empty ballroom. The event was the long planned, much talked about, “Speak Your Way to Wealth Seminar.” And guess what!? It was a smashing success! And I want to share with you the things we did right to make it a success and the things we learned we can do better next year.
In this session you will learn how to:
1. Hire the right people to help you. One of the smartest things we did was to hire an event planner to help us coordinate the hotel contract, make the name tags and provide us with different resources as we needed them. A good, experienced event planner can be worth their weight in gold. Don't skimp here.
2. Manage affiliates and get them promoting. Hiring an Affiliate Manager to manage your affiliate program is one of the most valuable things we learned half way into marketing our event. Until that time we had never heard of such a person. We spent so much time chasing our affiliates and requesting they send out promotional emails that it took precious time away from other marketing efforts that would have paid off more. So for next year - an affiliate manager is one of the first people we are going to hire.
3. Take care of the speakers
> Not be manipulated by others who want to participate
> Handle back of the room sales smoothly
> Create a learning environment
> Set expections of the staff
> Promote your event early - at least 6 months in advance
Wishing you much success in creating your own money making seminar!
Passionately Speaking,
Arvee Robinson
http://www.instantprospeaker.com
http://www.speakyourwaytowealth.com
Great speakers seem to present to an audience effortlessly, without a drop of sweat on their brow, not a flutter in their voice, and no bungled words. They hold us in awe, captivate us, leave us hanging on their every word and easily persuade us to respond to anything they ask of us.
Turn every speech into a product. One thing that my marketing mentor taught me early on is to record every speech. Recording your speech will do two things. One, it captures your speech so



Many professionals don’t take the time to get to know their audiences before they speak. If you are a professional who wants to speak to grow your business, you must first get to know your audience. Most presenters don’t take the time to learn what’s important to the group they are speaking to.





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